亲密关系中的情感探索：Calytenseks的启示与思考很很扌鲁

　　Each of us has some sexual fantasies. Some are quite common. Others quite crazy. Still others totally crazy. Only when to tell the other person about them? Can't be done on a first date, he'll take you for a pervert. On the third? On the fifth? After half a year? After the wedding? In your forties? The stakes only go up. But someday... someday it has to be done.